Behavior

So ever since the court date we've had a return of daily bed wetting (and the hiding of wet sheets).  We've had several potty accidents at school. We've had a ton of disregulated behavior, struggles at meal time, and have now introduced morning crying jags about hair brushing. 

Of course the visit this month falls on the last day of school. I almost feel like emailing Bio Mom and relaying this information along with a nice note about the added stress she placed on them and the happiness they will exhibit at their visit will be totally fake. I want ask her to reassure them, but why would they (or me) believe her. It wouldn't matter anyway, she sees all this as Bio Dad's fault for not showing up. 

It's going to take a long time for me to forgive her for this choice. 


at

No comments:

Post a Comment

Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom)

Long Overdue Update

Well hello there! It has been years since I've written and published a post and recently I've had the idea that maybe this year was ...

  • She Never Cried
    Sheila called to wish Sarah Happy Birthday and she shared a story with her that as a baby she never cried. Not when she was hungry, not when...
  • Minimum Parenting Standards - Monday's Post
    I can't figure out Blogger's time zone and I may not have time to write Monday evening so here is Monday's post. This week we ...
  • Reader Question: Did You change their names?
    Yes we did. We actually started using their new names shortly after their good bye visit with Sheila last August. So the only name that real...
  • FAQs
    I had some questions asked of me recently that I thought I would answer here: 1) How do you keep doing this after so much crap? I actual...
  • It is a process
    It's a physical ache. A pain in the middle of my chest.  And it causes hot tears, the kind that sting my eyes.  It settled over me toda...